I re-read todays post and felt bad for it. I really don't have any reason to complain. So I have issues with my job, who doesn't? What am I bitching about? I work for my partner/spouse for the love of Pete. How rough could that be? Not at all, really. I guess I needed to write that post so I could come back and read it to make it clear to me. I've got it easy. How quickly I've forgotten what its like to work for someone who really is indifferent to your needs. What the hec am I bitching about?
Thinking about it now, I can see that it really was just my ego. I felt wronged, dammit, and someone (Jay) was going to feel my 'pain'.
Yep, I'm going to have to work on that.
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
I whine, there for I am.
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The first one here, that would be me, sees you figured this one out all by yourself. It's like talking to yourself through the keyboard. Hey, just because you work with your love, doesn't mean you always agree. We're all whiners at heart.
You are so hard on yourself. Could you give my buddy Brad a break, please?
I think you deserve a big pat on the back . . . or maybe a hug . . . for working yourself through this and then coming to tell us you'd changed your mind. A lot of people would have just let the post stand and not worried about ti.
We all have days like the one you had. I hope you're feeling better now.
I didn't see it as whining at all, to be honest. But if you look back and see how you can grow as a person, then it's a good thing.
Love you! Be nice to yourself.
And then sometimes some of us just need to get it all out to be able to see how off-kilter we are. I, for one, operate much in that same way.
Be easy on you!
Be well.
It certainly helps to vent and we're all happy to be there for ya ;-)
Play well with others...LOL
Sometimes we need to vent whether we are right or wrong, you know? Give yourself a break buddy. Hugs.
:)
I agree with Fiwa...don't be so hard on yourself..we all have kinks that require adjusting and you're far wiser then most men because A) you can recognize what you want to tweak and B) you try too..
Most guys don't even get past A!
Chin Up Bradley!
I'm sure if Bear could chat with you, he'd say the same thing!! :0)
Xo,
Elizabeth
Sometimes it helps just to say how you feel to make you feel better. I think talking sometimes puts things in perspective.
Yes, whiney is sometimes necessary. But damnit! It's really good to see someone else throw their funk around. Good for you. Now take a really long lunchbreak and go watch a movie, lol. And buy shoes, that always helps me. And use their credit card to do it. That'll teach them.
Seriously, I totally agree that I hate being the bad guy but sometimes, that nasty thing called compromise has to happen. I hate when that happens.
we all have bad days and it sounds as if you just had an off day..which is allowed...I think...
We all whine. It's part of nature. It's good for the ozone layer.
You're human my friend.
Give yourself a break and take a hug from moi. ((((HUG)))
I complain all the time. That is part of my charm - or so I tell myself.
That is what your little piece of the 'net is for - to complain one in a while if you need to. :)
eh, no worries. You gotta let it out or your head would explode.
Just checking in on you, Brad, to make sure you're doing okay today. Hope your day was better!
Be well.
I have to agree with you about being the one to have to deal with the customers when a policy just put into place is changed shortly thereafter but Brad my friend.....never never give up an offer to lunch with anyone you care about or in this case love. It fills the belly, warms the soul, and mends the fence....that sounds warm and fuzzy but I was really just thinking about food.
It's always good to write things out to look at later. It's all a process I guess.
You did good.
Hi there. I come from Mo's place. I love your style of writing and wit! I've just been going through your posts and thought this was a good place to stop and say hi.
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